Its been a month since i spoke to my friend. should i get in contact or just forget about him?

He seems obsessed with you. You have the right to have a life beyond him. If you aren't talking I would suggest taking that opportunity to get away from him. It may be hard to leave a friend behind, especially when you really think of them as a good friend. But It's also hard to have a friendship with someone who likes you more than you like them. Unless he finds someone (A girlfriend) I would suggest leaving him alone. You don't necessarily have to forget about him though.